A large kitchen table sized, ovel with lights going around it went past my house not making a sound.

My friend came over since our husbands went away on bussines, we went to bed she slept on the couth, and was looking out the window east over the tress, since this was in a forseted area.  She yelled to me come look ufo, not beliving her I did, over the trees there was a object it went straight up left, then right, and headed west which came closer to us just about over head, before it got that close I ran for the binoclers, it was a very cold clear night, it made no noise, and seemed to be very close, moving slowly and heading west, it was round and you could see the lights which seemed with the eye to be blinking, but through the bincolers were going around the object, the lights were red, blue, and green.  It was the size of a kithen table.  I was scard and happy not to meet any of them, and glad to see it leave. We wanted to tell someone, but this is the first time telling it public.  I also saw in the same place a few years later, a white thing, like a ball with something around it, best described like a humming birds wings going so fast you see motion around it, it was about a foot across and darted around in the clearing, then dissapeard.  I thought to myself a bird? but it was no bird. This was in the day light.