They come nightly on ground and in sky

I have been experiencing them on and off throughout my life. Now they are getting a lot more brazen about it. Lights on the ground flashing at me through my windows. I hear them in the bushes at night like little kids walking but I can't see them just lights right now. However, I have seen them in the past. Lights flashing in the sky. Moving in fast motions, zig zag, circular, always towards me above my head. It is scaring me and I have a family. I don't want them to think I am crazy. This is really happening and they (aliens) want to talk to me. So far they have not entered my house. I am trying to ignore them because I am scared. I get visions about a nuclear war coming and I think it is from them. I have filmed it but they told me not to send that out, so I will not show it on here. I don't want my family in danger by the government. I don't know if I should be doing this but I need help. There is a lot more to this story.