Star like sphere moving and emitting flashes around it that kind of made it appear to sparkle.

At approximately 9:40pm we went outside to see if we could see a few meteors. I was waiting for my Dad and my son was running around the driveway. I looked up from the ramp onto the deck and noticed a sparkly looking star that was moving kind of strange. It was a little erratic like it zigged a little one way and then zagged back the other way. It also appeared to emit something or sparkle. I pulled up Sky Tonight and nothing in the spot and it was moving so I figured it wasn't a star. I did record video which is hard to do with a phone at night. This is one of a few sightings I have had out here. Each sighting has kind of triggered my anxiety and made me a little nervewracked and not wanting to or being able to sleep. They seem to be getting more and more frequent. I am completely sober. I don't drink or do drugs or anything. I don't even smoke or vape. I am going to upload the video to YouTube like I have done before and add the link to this report.
https://youtu.be/8NAtL7cBSes