what we saw was real and the truth

the sighting was seen through a north facing second story window of a 100 year old farmhouse.
three family members were watching tv all lights in house were off when first eyewittness saw red and blue flashing lights and said what is that ? second and third eyewittnesses saw what looked like a black helicopter they saw the lights but could hear no saound from the ufo at all.
as they all stared transfixed at this ,the object just hovered .the view of what looke like a pilot operating this craft was seen the pilot was wearing a full helmet so no facial features could be seen but the fact is it was human like in form after hovering for what seemed like a short period of time it slowly moved upwards to the roof and quietly left.what was strange is after this encounter you would think the three would have been in shock or scared to death or even call to report this Instead they turned back to continue watching tv all these years have gone by and yet we all remember this in detail and still can't beleive we all just went back to watching tv did we lose time? It was and still is a continueing thought of what and how this was not the only ufo sighting another family member had an even closer encounter with a ufo.
she saw a craft with the lights and this one landed in a dark pature in front of this house and she saw three 4 ft tall ? forms come out they also had full suits and helmets on and they came to the large window to her to this day she refuses to detail her experience as it has deeply affected her she was so shocked and scared she ended upstairs sleeping on the floor in her aun's bedroom and when asked why she was there she said you will think i'm crazy but she saw this before we saw ours and we only learned of her expierience about ten years ago;let's just say after her encounter she never was the same
Witness indicates that date of incident is approximate.  PD