Bright, glowing white light moving slowly above us with no blinking lights.

My husband was outside smoking, watching the stars, when he opened the door and frantically asked me to come look outside. As I got to the middle of the driveway, I looked up and saw a large, bright, glowing light that was traveling very slowly toward the east, from the west. It was traveling pretty low, and there was no sound. 
Suddenly, it just “blinked out,” for lack of a better term. It just seemed to disappear. Then, about a minute or so later, another light appeared, quite a bit higher up, and farther toward the southeast, it started moving toward the north east, and it also just disappeared as quickly as it appeared. Neither object had any sort of blinking whatsoever. And, neither object made a sound. However, about 3-4 minutes later we heard a loud jet, like a military jet fly over. We saw no lights on it, but we heard it go over. My husband is still outside looking, but I had to post this. There have been 2 other sightings in our local paper within the last few months (1 was a shape-shifting object, and the other a triangle), and we live in a very small town. What’s going on here?
ISS?  PD